If Setting Boundaries Is Hard For You…

Lin Watchorn
3 min readJun 10, 2024

Setting boundaries can be really hard for some of us, especially if we grew up in an upbringing where our needs or wants weren’t considered often. We later become the type of people who “go with the flow.” We may be easygoing, but we also may struggle with feelings of resentment that we spend our lives not having our needs met.

A Lot Of People Are Understanding

It can be hard to wrap our mind around; but other people will have zero issue saying no and enforcing their boundaries. When other people tell us our boundaries, They often don’t feel guilty or uncomfortable about it. It would help you significantly to become the same way. In order to have healthy relationships with others it’s important to be able to communicate what you want and need that is part of taking responsibility for yourself.

Figure out what you want.

Some of us who grew up in an environment without choices may not have the best understanding of who we are, Or what we like. We could have a parent who always made decisions for us. When we are never able to put in the time to figure out who we are, We can end up in a situation where we become really indecisive, But…

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Lin Watchorn

Hello! My Name Is Lin Watchorn (Green Cow Land) I’m a self employed Artist, Author and Blogger! Check out my Merch Here https://www.amazon.com/shop/kaylinart